Reasons Why Guys feel Intimidated approching Single Ladies with Cars
Average Nigerian guys
feels it’s wrong for a single lady hoping to get married someday to own and
drive round the town in her own personal car. the question is, is it wrong for
a single lady to own a car especially before marriage? if no, why then do guys
feel intimidated or scared to approach them?
Most guys also have the
believe that women especially the singles ladies that own a car of their own, tend to be arrogant to men that admires them, pompous,
mannerless and prideful, so they dare not go close to them to avoid being
embarrass especially when they are on foot and do not have cars of their
own, and no man want to be looked down on, or to be seen as a commoner by
a lady simly because he has no car of his own.
a question was raised, why is it that ladies driving cars hardly stop to give a guy lift just like men do? it was termed that single ladies with cars tend to see guys without a car as a nothing.
a question was raised, why is it that ladies driving cars hardly stop to give a guy lift just like men do? it was termed that single ladies with cars tend to see guys without a car as a nothing.
A few
disturbing opinion and some kind of myopic belief that classified either
single/ unmarried woman who has a car as a runs girl or stated that a rich
independent woman won't find a husband.
Most people paint the picture, a woman can only
be successful if she sleeps around. In their minds, wealth and women don't mix.
A woman shouldn't be rich. "Where did she get it all that
money from?"
The
warped view that rich women (who are richer than their husbands) can't be good
wives is equally stupid and laughable. This is just ego and fear coming to
play.
Fear comes to play because some men are afraid
that if they are with women richer than them, they can get up and leave them
any time. Some women are stuck in marriages because they are not financially
independent and need their upkeep money from their spouses.
in some
countries like Saudi Arabia, prohibits women the right to get behind
the steering wheel. Even though technically it is not illegal for women to
drive in the country1, a religious edict, or fatwa, issued in the early '90s,
banned the practice, also in Afghanistan, where
the prohibition against driving by women is more of a cultural and religious
edict rather than legal ban.
Nigeria as a country, women are
not prohibited from driving, neither married nor single. these are few
reactions from the populace both on tweeter and one -on-one interviews:
It might seem very hard to believe but there are people who believe a financially successful woman is a slut or is likely not to get married.
Sometimes we see these ugly beliefs in public. When a woman refuses to be bossed on the road while in her car, she is called an 'ashewo' by a danfo driver, his bus conductor or a seemingly literate Nigerian man. Sometimes it's women who abuse women in cars.
There is nothing wrong for a single/unmarried women driving their own cars, men are scared or feel intimidated approching them simply because they are meant to be man of the house and as a the man, they should be in control, and not being ride round town in the woman's car.
the simple truth, guys do not be scared in approching a woman you admire, car owner or not, do not feel intimidated by the car, because "you can not tell the content of a book from the cover page" that woman who is a car owner might be the most humble woman on earth.
This is the truth, Any man who is intimidated by a lady who has a car is not a man. He is a boy not man enough, plain and simple.
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